How To Attract Any Woman

Attracting women is an art, and to master it, you must do it like a gentleman. You don’t necessarily have to chase them either.

Actions speak louder than words, and that is not just a phrase, especially when you want women to pursue you or reciprocate your advances. Two different guys doing the same thing, at the same time will normally get different results. That’s why your approach and execution have to be unique to you.

If the other guy gets great results with a woman and you don’t, even though you did the exact same thing. Then what could have gone wrong? Why is the other guy busy planning their date while you’re exercising your thumbs on Tinder swiping as fast as you can?

Well, let’s discuss a few things you may need to adjust in order to get better results – and it’s more than just your looks.

Confidence is silent. Insecurity is loud.

In a room full of people, most times it’s easy to spot the ones who have confidence if you really pay attention. On the flip side, those who don’t have it stand out just as much sometimes, if not more whether they realize it or not. And if that’s you, don’t worry because confidence can be developed with practice and determination.

First off, you’ve got to overcome your fears to build confidence. Even if you’re a shy person, and you want to attract women around you, you need to start unveiling the attractive and exclusive man you are inside. Don’t let fear cripple you out of having a happy future with the woman of your dreams. Try to uproot your fears and confront them head on.

“What if she says no?” So what. There are over 300 million women in the United States alone. What are the odds of them all saying no?

“What if my friends or her friends see me reject me? Hell, what if anybody sees her reject me?!” Do you honestly think anyone has never been rejected? Even if they haven’t, the average human has less than the attention span of a goldfish. As soon as the next tweet or headlines comes through their newsfeed, they won’t even remember your face.

“What if someone is recording me and my rejection gets uploaded to the internet and goes viral?” Short answer: if you’re worried to this extent then you should consider seeing a therapist.

“Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t–you’re right.” — Henry Ford

Confidence isn’t something you’re just born with or just happens to you because life hasn’t been fair. You have to work towards having confidence little by little each day until it becomes part of you.

Try not to overthink your approach. Sometimes saying all the right things won’t work and saying the wrong things does wonders. You just have to approach a woman that you like and the more women you to talk to, the more you will conquer the anxiety you feel. As your confidence soars, your body language will change, and you will stand out amongst the crowd.

Be confident, show your uniqueness, and own the space around you. There is nothing more irresistible to a woman than a confident, and chivalrous man. Ultimately, you need to learn to stop caring what other people think of you.

Women love funny guys.

It’s a known fact that women love men who have a sense of humor. This makes them comfortable with you and can leave a lasting impression. Now, that doesn’t mean you overdo it because then it will come off like you’re trying too hard and that’s synonymous with being desperate.

Polish your sense of humor and just avoid being cheesy. Don’t use old-school pick-up lines with women or make jokes that put others down. If the woman has any class, then she will assume you’re either an amateur, bully or just an overall jerk.

Try to lead the conversation by asking a question that could potentially have a funny answer. “If you could have one superpower, what would it be? And why?” You’ll probably be surprised at her answer. Regardless of how she replies, try to visualize her in that situation and make light of it by teasing her in a playful manner. It should go without saying not to overdo teasing her though!

What is your passion?

Your goals and your interest add up in your attractiveness score. Your goals direct you and your values give you a sense of self-discipline. Either it’s your adventurous hobby or your experiments with food in the kitchen. It doesn’t matter, just as long as you’re passionate about something. Having a passion lets the woman know that there’s more to you than what’s on the surface. You have some type of purpose or goals within your life. It shows you’re also productive with your time.

Just be true to yourself and discover what you’re passionate about. A passionate person is inspiring and enriching, and a lot of women find that totally irresistible. Be careful not to talk a hole in her head while discussing your passion. Gauge her interests as well. The conversation works both ways.

Build sexual tension.

Don’t jump in too fast, pull back once in a while. Show some self-control with confident body language. Hold your eye-contact while she’s speaking, but don’t be creepy about it. Make sure your body language is facing her and all signs point to the fact that you’re interested in what she has to say. When she’s finished speaking, assure her with your questions that she’s got your undivided attention. Be charming and lure her with your charisma.

Show her that you are the perfect blend considerate and kind, and cute and funny. Don’t push too hard, you don’t want to look like a guy who is looking for a hit. Rather be a gentleman who is deeply enchanted by the person sitting next to him.

If you’re thinking with the right head, you should also try to hold out on sex and not rush into things. When you let it be known that you’re more interested in seeing where things go instead of just adding her to a long (or short) list of women you’ve slept with, your relationship will go a bit further.

Be a free soul.

Don’t rush things and show your desperation. Trust me guys, to ensure the success of your date, add some dignity to the whole experience. Don’t worry about the outcomes of the encounter. Enjoy the moment and enjoy the process. When you focus on just having a good time instead of your end goal, then you might just be surprised at seeing the tables turn. You may find that she begins to pursue you.

When you are too focused on the results, you may come out as pushy or seem ‘too needy’. Most women aren’t attracted to “needy men” because it’s stereotypically looked at as being a female trait (although there are just as many needy men as needy women). If your date feels comfortable with you and like there are no strings attached, she will begin to open up.

Practice the art of talking and flirting. Make it a point to talk to at least three women in a day without caring about the results. Keep practicing the techniques we shared with you and eventually you will notice a change in yourself. If you need a self confidence boost, then make sure to read this article later.

Chivalry isn’t dead. You’ve just been settling for a lot less.

People think that chivalry, consideration, and charm are dead. They try to play it cool and end up losing the date and sometimes a possible future wife. The thing is though, no matter how much times have changed, the rules of attraction stay the same. It’s okay to play cool, but don’t forget to add some dignity to your dating experience.

Women love attention, it’s important for them to know that you value their presence. Every woman is different and therefore they look for different experiences. Try like a gentleman but make sure you understand when to stop trying. If someone rejects you, move on. Consider it her loss if that helps. Learn from each experience, and after a little trial and error, you will perfect the art of attracting women.